Cradle to pyre | We all owe each other as much as we could

Another page of my life,

28 April 2023

Day before yesterday, I was at a function which was actually welcome celebration party of a newly born baby. As we entered that space, the parents insisted us for getting the photographs clicked which is obviously a kind gesture and for sure a life long memorable evening. The vibe of that place was just amazing, everyone welcoming the birth of the baby, wishing them good health and prosperity. After talking to them for a while, we were comfortably sitting and vibing to the bollywood songs. 

After few minutes, a gentleman served us some snacks. We were enjoying the food and after a while, I thought of checking my mobile phone. I opened my WhatsApp. One message popped up from crowdfunding app which was a heart wrenching news which read as- We have some sad news. It was a news about the sad demise of a friend's father. I didn't understand for a moment what to think, how to read the rest of the message. After taking some long breath, I prayed for the peace of the departed soul and thought of sitting there for a while in quiet although it was all loud around there.

One thing that hit me hard in that moment was the fact that how nicely we all are pretending to be happy or trying to escape from the truth, eventually the ultimate truth.

This journey of cradle to pyre might seem long to many, and a lot of them even almost forget that we are not here forever. They start thinking that they can behave the way they want, they can hurt someone by being mean, and this attitude of "my life, my choice" is the worst attitude that have been injected in the hearts of the youth. They have started believing in the fact that they don't owe anybody anything. 

It has made their minds more toxic than any drugs would ever do.

Living a life on earth can never be all about oneself. We all owe each other as much as we could. Be kind to each other. It won't cost you anything. If something is bothering you talk it out, discuss your pain, don't bottle up your emotions, resolve the things even if you have disagreement on something. And, moreover never listen to influencers, models or any gurus that you are good enough being alone and don't need people around you. All they can do is to fill your mind with poison and toxicity to live alone. It is not about being dependent on anyone but about being together in all ups and downs of people's lives especially your family members.

We are not aliens, we are humans, so better BE HUMAN TO EACH OTHER!

Until next time, be the change that you want to see around you without being rigid with all the bullshit ideas of identity that have been cooked in your mind .